what is love...?
All right, so i did not intend to post any more entry, but seeing so many many things happen this few days, I just wanted to voice my opinion in this matter, please don't take it to heart if this entry offended you in any way, just my opinion.
So, on that fateful day, can't remember when, school was as normal, then came the news. i turned back, and heard"eh dgoh, you know your hao peng you break liao?" Haizzz...obviously i don't, cause i seldom bother myself with other people's businesses. Then came a detailed explaination of all the factors leading up to the breakup. At first, it was Justin post on the 29th of August talking about his own opinion on cs and cheryl. I shall not talk about the content in that entry and yes, it does not contain anything good. So, cheryl happened to read that entry, and apparently got very mad, and broke with cs.
Ok, you can guessed what happened afterwards. From an outsider point of view, I can understand how both parties feel. On one hand, i think the biggest factor is because of the gang's pressure on the supposedly loving couple. I can sense it, everytime we go out, there's always bound to be someone talking about cs and his so called meeting lifestyle. Well, sometimes they sound like they are joking, but apparently, cheryl don't think its funny. On the other hand, the mindset i got from the gang was that cheryl was too sensitive and over-reacting. Well, i still can't come to a solid conclusion who is wrong or right, even if i got one, i won't be disclosing it but definitely, I think the real victim is cs. Yes, he had to handle the pressure from the gang, always accusing him of meeting and making him an outcast(I must say I contributed to it too), and also hear the complaints of his girlfriend. In the end, they broke up, cheryl ending up angry, the gang think that it's funny, but the real victim, the only one who could feel the pain was cs. Maybe i was wrong, maybe he felt relieved after this relationship was over, but this, only cs know.
After the breakup of cheryl and cs, then attention came to cl and michelle. Their relationship was getting worst too, because of the so called propaganda by cheryl. I don't really know much, until today when i heard that they too, have broken up. I knew it was a matter of time. You can't love a guy and your sister hates them and his group of friends. I really can understand if she wanted to break, but I was disappointed about the remarks after they broke up. "jolly well tell him to go and die if he wants", I mean, why can't they remain friends even after break up, or just leave it as it is, take it like nothing happened. Instead, she chose to say such remarks, which would inevitably add more pain to cl. Now, i heard rumours that cl said he wanted to die, and judging from his character, even if he did not die, he would have attempted to. So afterwards, when he is dead, would you kneel at his funeral and sob? Even if you do, it would be useless, he won't come back. If you don't, can you live your life with your head held high? I mean, you just indirectly caused someone to take his own life. Therefore, i sincerely hoped that you could take back your words.
For justin, i don't really know much but heard that he also attempted to take his own life. Haiz...why man why? Don't torture yourself, there's still a long way to go, it is not the end of the world. Anyway, we must all learn to kan4 kai1 a bit, dying won't solve anything. Once again, i would like to stress that i am in no way trying to offend anyone, that's all i guess, i hope this entry would help all those involved.
So, on that fateful day, can't remember when, school was as normal, then came the news. i turned back, and heard"eh dgoh, you know your hao peng you break liao?" Haizzz...obviously i don't, cause i seldom bother myself with other people's businesses. Then came a detailed explaination of all the factors leading up to the breakup. At first, it was Justin post on the 29th of August talking about his own opinion on cs and cheryl. I shall not talk about the content in that entry and yes, it does not contain anything good. So, cheryl happened to read that entry, and apparently got very mad, and broke with cs.
Ok, you can guessed what happened afterwards. From an outsider point of view, I can understand how both parties feel. On one hand, i think the biggest factor is because of the gang's pressure on the supposedly loving couple. I can sense it, everytime we go out, there's always bound to be someone talking about cs and his so called meeting lifestyle. Well, sometimes they sound like they are joking, but apparently, cheryl don't think its funny. On the other hand, the mindset i got from the gang was that cheryl was too sensitive and over-reacting. Well, i still can't come to a solid conclusion who is wrong or right, even if i got one, i won't be disclosing it but definitely, I think the real victim is cs. Yes, he had to handle the pressure from the gang, always accusing him of meeting and making him an outcast(I must say I contributed to it too), and also hear the complaints of his girlfriend. In the end, they broke up, cheryl ending up angry, the gang think that it's funny, but the real victim, the only one who could feel the pain was cs. Maybe i was wrong, maybe he felt relieved after this relationship was over, but this, only cs know.
After the breakup of cheryl and cs, then attention came to cl and michelle. Their relationship was getting worst too, because of the so called propaganda by cheryl. I don't really know much, until today when i heard that they too, have broken up. I knew it was a matter of time. You can't love a guy and your sister hates them and his group of friends. I really can understand if she wanted to break, but I was disappointed about the remarks after they broke up. "jolly well tell him to go and die if he wants", I mean, why can't they remain friends even after break up, or just leave it as it is, take it like nothing happened. Instead, she chose to say such remarks, which would inevitably add more pain to cl. Now, i heard rumours that cl said he wanted to die, and judging from his character, even if he did not die, he would have attempted to. So afterwards, when he is dead, would you kneel at his funeral and sob? Even if you do, it would be useless, he won't come back. If you don't, can you live your life with your head held high? I mean, you just indirectly caused someone to take his own life. Therefore, i sincerely hoped that you could take back your words.
For justin, i don't really know much but heard that he also attempted to take his own life. Haiz...why man why? Don't torture yourself, there's still a long way to go, it is not the end of the world. Anyway, we must all learn to kan4 kai1 a bit, dying won't solve anything. Once again, i would like to stress that i am in no way trying to offend anyone, that's all i guess, i hope this entry would help all those involved.
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